How to Read a Family
We all have some form of a family or a relationship in our life. Whether it be your parents, siblings, significant other, or friends, we are constantly reading and interpreting messages from these people around you. Some are non-verbal while other clues are said right to our face. How we chose to interpret the people around us and they connections they form will affect your own relationship with them in the future. There are four different theories that I will be briefly explaining and how we can better use them to our advantage in our own lives. One of the most well-known theories is the Systems Theory. The key word to remember with this one is subsystem. Our families can and are divided into subsystems. For example, one subsystem in your family may include the mother and father while another group may include a child and the mother. If we look at all of these subsystems as a whole, we can see very distinct boundaries and rules that have been established even thoug...